Masterful Lover is the website of David Shade and his products and books on developing sexuality and becoming more sexual.

In 1992, I found myself divorced, feeling defeated and alone. With nothing to lose, I devoted myself to diligent research and figuring it all out myself.

I wanted to learn how to be a better lover. I went to the bookstores many times, buying books on how to be a better lover. Over a period of a year, I read all the books. They were somewhat disappointing.

Though there may have been one paragraph in each book worth quoting, they were all the same. Some books spent 20 pages on just how to lick the clitoris. Some wrote about how you have to have “communication” and “dialogue”.

Communication and dialogue are all good, but that is not what is going to give women orgasms if they’ve never had one. Most of the books were written by bleeding heart “feel good” wimps. None of the books were giving me anything useful, let alone anything powerful.

It seemed that it was the bad boys that were making women dripping wet. Has a woman ever cried on your shoulder because she is madly in love with the bad boy that treats her badly? I’ve been there.

The bad boys never went to the bookstores to buy books on how to be a better lover. So I started studying what the bad boys were doing, and why they were eventually failing. I studied what the good guys were doing wrong, and what it was about them that women liked. I put together all the effective things that bad boys were doing with all the good things that the good guys were doing.

Then in the mid 1990s, I got onto the Internet. I learned some leading edge psychological theories and powerful tools from renegade psychologists. Those researchers were shunned at the time, though now all the major marketing companies use their technique. I even attended a world renowned master hypnotist’s training and learned hypnosis. Now that was interesting.