The official blog of dating coach Jake Vandenhoff features advice on pick-up, online dating, and relationships as well as personal stories and anecdotes. In Jake's own words: What can I say about myself? I'm a fun loving dude on the adventure of a life time! I work from home, or the road, or the beach etc... Helping men get a handle on their dating lives so they can date the women the want most. It's rewarding.