Hi I’m Thanh Bonsai and I’m a dating coach with Love Systems (formerly Mystery Method) where I teach men how to succeed with women. Some people call me the “Asian Hitch” but I just see myself as an average guy helping men to find the woman of their dreams.

I wasn’t always successful with women. In fact, before I discovered Love Systems I was probably one of the biggest nice guys in the universe and I was always stuck in the “friend zone.” That changed when I learned that anyone can be great with women. It is a skill set you can learn with the right determination and training.

After a couple years of working with several dating coaches of Love Systems I was invited to start teaching dating science. Now I am sharing and giving back to the people who want succeed with beautiful women.

I totally understand that it can be frustrating sometimes when you try to learn how you can meet and date more women. That is one of the reasons why I started this blog so I can share my knowledge and have others use that to succeed with women they want to date.

Every guy should have the ability to pick the women he wants to date. I hate it when I see guys settle with a girl when they know they can do better or they know that a train wreck is about to happen in the relationship. Don’t settle! Find the woman of your dreams and if you have no idea how to do that, read this blog and let me help you.

This blog was formerly known as “Bonsai Dating Tips.”